David Harborne began his project, Secret Gay Men, just over a year ago after a near 30-year experience of his own. “I specialize in coaching…
Continue reading → 30 years in the closet: Life coach lights path to self discovery
“If you feel different, talk to somebody you can trust because at least then it comes out and you're expressing yourself a bit more. I've missed out a huge number of years and I wouldn't want anybody else to do that.”
Pronouns: He/Him/His James first identified himself as a gay man when he was 16 years old, though he knew he’s been different since 7. “While…
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Pronouns: He/Him/His Anthony’s relationship with his family was complicated — not so much by my being gay, but by other issues. He coins himself as lucky…
Continue reading → “I was lucky to have an older sibling that came out before me.”
Pronouns: He/Him/His Local Wisconsin politician Aaron Wojciechowski had unspoken love and support with his entire family growing up. “I never grew up in a homophobic…
Pronouns: He/Him/His Art Smith grew up in New Jersey, just a short distance from the Big Apple, in the ‘60s and ‘70s. “I was active…
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Spoiler alert, I still don't know. Pronouns: She/They It was a pretty typical childhood for me: playing with neighbors, running around the neighborhood and eventually…
Pronouns: He/Him/His Kev grew up in a moderately small city as an only child to a single mother in a Catholic household; his father left…
Continue reading → “A psychologist asked me if I liked men or women, and I didn’t have an answer.”
Pronouns: He/Him/His Zach has been in Wisconsin his entire life. He was born in Monroe and eventually moved to Barneveld, a little conservative-leaning town with…
Continue reading → Gay man attributes TV shows, internet to figuring out his sexuality
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